Christians is this hard for you?

I have been a christian my entire life. I was raised in a small town and everyone i knew was a christian. We all just shared the same beliefs and interests. So in a way I guess I was sheltered. But I grew up and moved away to a medium sized city where i now feel like the outsider. It seems everywhere you turn their is disrespect for God! It makes me sad to to think about the people who i consider friends because in the end if they dont turn their life over to god well......you know where their going. I try to talk to them as much as i can to try to change their minds but you know how it is...they feel that their is no God so they think its pointless to discuss it. Whats WORSE to me is that they are raising their children Godless. It kills me. I honestly sometimes just want to ask them " dont you understand you are condemning them to hell by not introducing them to GOD? Does this bother any of you as well?